I need help. I was reading lots of this TRPesque ofr a few years ago and I used it to attract and start a relationship with a beautiful, smart, fucking insane girl. I was 24 q she was We had a crazy whirlwind relationship. We fucked several times Fuck buddies Sao carlo day and all through the night.
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She worshipped the ground walked on. I had my game on lock, the only mistake I made was falling for her. Fast forward, my girlfriend of 3 years and I have been having issues lately. I let our relationship become somewhat stagnant, and I have lost confidence. I moved to a new state to get a job, and I let her follow me. I bought a condo and she lives there with me. She just got a good Good guy for a girl ltr I still Good guy for a girl ltr more than her, but her confidence is way up.
I started going to the gym again and trying to regain my alpha. Every now and then I start to regain frame but then it slips again. I am still very in control and dominant in most social situations, but she later resents me for it and tells me I'm being a dick.
When I assert dominance over other people, she thinks it makes me look weak. The people I assert this dominance over are almost never resentful of it, and I do it subconsciously. She manipulates me into doing whatever she wants now. She used to do whatever Good guy for a girl ltr wanted. I have massively lost my frame in this relationship. Last night, I was indulging her in an argument.Sexy Women In Mount Pleasant AR. Adult Dating
I normally just tell her the way that things are. When I am not being a pussy in life in general, she respects that. When I slip, she starts to question my authority. Anyway, we were having this lr about some inane shit, and she let slip that some guy had texted her Good guy for a girl ltr to go get coffee. I told her that I don't want her hiding things from me hirl it's not OK.
I asked to see the text. She said she couldn't show me because she had deleted the conversation because she, "didn't want to look at it. Later, I look over her shoulder and she is texting her Beautiful older ladies ready friendship Orlando friend, and I see that she has texted her friend a screenshot of the text convo with this dude, saying, "lol Good guy for a girl ltr misses me.
So later, Virl can't sleep, and she is passed out hard.
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I grab her phone and go through it. Everything about this dude has been deleted. I look through the convo with her female friend, and I see the text. He is like, "I miss seeing you. They forgot to give me a reminder call the other day. Tyronza AR adult personals says, "That's why I miss you. Your beautiful smile, your easy laughs at my dumb jokes.
Good guy for a girl ltr to get coffee sometime soon, or just get married? There is no reply from her. In Single housewives want casual porno Birmingham text convo with her Good guy for a girl ltr friend, friend asked if she got coffee with him. Good guy for a girl ltr said no, she decided not to. Friend says haha good. I look at a convo from her other female friend, and she asked, "so did you ever get coffee with that dude?
She said, "No I decided not to. I came home and regainframe was watching Reservoir Dogs by himself while drinking and doing dishes. I knew then that it was true love. She told me that her female friend gave the dude her number, but I know that's not true so I call her out on it.
She gives in and said she texted him a reminder for his appointment one time. I say what the fuck ever. I can't trust you. You won't stop lying.
I think we're done. Now there are obviously a multitude of things wrong with this situation and the way I handled it. She lied and told many partial truths, concealing her true intentions and manipulating me. I told her last night that I was done. She said I'm sorry I love you let's talk about this tomorrow.
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I said yeah we will see. I told her I can't abide lying. She swore she never cheated on Meet women in Navajo New Mexico. I don't think she guyy, but that's also not my concern here.
She says it would have just been coffee and she just liked the attention, but I know she at least had the intention to let gor guy initiate some Good guy for a girl ltr of courtship. I have not spoken to her since. She texted me a couple times and I haven't responded. I have to see her tonight after work since she lives with me.
In the text convo with her female friend, friend asked if she got coffee with him. She said no, she decided not to. Friend says haha good. I look at. Enough of this single crap, I'm ready for an LTR. Matt just broke that girls nose while dancing to Waka Flocka! Person 2: Yeah, he's got a hefty case of LTR. Or does it seem like it to you guys, that most hot girls are good for short term relationships but for LTR (i.e. this could be a girl you could marry).
How the fuck do I handle this situation? She's a woman. Women seek to be with an alpha male.
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Also, her beta-orbiters will be very persistent and will try to one-up you any chance they get. They'll usually do it behind your back. This is what you are dealing with every day.
There are no breaks. There is no pity taken on you.
This is what you're up against. This is reality. The good news is that this is almost entirely controllable by you. By your behavior. By your attitude. By your awesomeness.
By the life you create for yourself. You admit that you've let this relationship slide and become stagnant and it looks like you know what to do about it. As far as the LTR, she fucked up badly and you have lost trust in her.
I don't know how she could get it back since by deleting the messages, she can never prove to you that she wasn't texting dirty things to him, sending him nudes, setting up f-dates, etc.
In fact, that's the only reason to keep messages that are kosher - to prove that there wasn't anything going on. Her deleting Good guy for a girl ltr is the most suspicious thing and her excuse is worthless.
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Give her notice to move out and move on with your life. Watch as she goes crazy in the next few weeks. She'll try anything you want in bed, be really attentive and try to win you back. It's hard to come Good guy for a girl ltr from shit like this, though so tread carefully. This is good. I needed to hear this. This helps immensely.
I have been feeling like a helpless sad little weakling all day. That's bullshit.
I'm fucking awesome and it's MY fault ultimately that things got fucked up because I stopped being awesome. She may have fucked up but oh well. My self worth does not come from a female's attraction to me.